a friend and I and the wife were talking about how after you have a kid, it either makes you or breaks you. The wife said, I got mature real fast after I had the first one". I said "the jury is still out for me" and both women started laughing and my friend said "Since I’ve known you, you’ve gotten a lot more patient with the kids" and I said "I don’t see that." Then the wife says "it’s probably because I pick on you all the time and that’s why you can’t appreciate how far you’ve come".
Is anyone shocked by this?