today she doesn’t have to work and is she going to spend any time with the kids? No, No, a million times no. She’s at the doctors and then going to get a ladder so she can paint part of the inside of the house today. I totally get not taking any of the kids to either of those two places. She’s going to go to cosco later but will she take one of the little ones and let him or her ride around in the cart while she does the shopping? No way, she’ll take the teenager.
I can talk until I’m blue in the face about how I resent being home with the kids all the time while she goes out to run errands, even point out how beneficial it is to get them out and familiar with the environment but it would all be counteracted by things like "it’s such a pain to take them anywhere" or "the little girl will have to go to the bathroom 50 million times" etc.
Again, I ask the question internally, why the hell did she have these kids if she chooses not to spend hardly any time with them at all?
Oh and on top of all that, she’s going to go look at a house with a friend that is potentially 45 minutes away.
This is the same friend who was the sperm donor for the two little ones, and that is another backstory. I am quickly losing track of how many there are to tell now.